Shalini Bahl, Ph.D.
Discover Your Roadmap to Real-World Mindfulness and Change
Once or twice in a lifetime,
you may come across
a book that can change you in
a most positive way.
Return has this magic and more.
—Ron Hill, Ph.D
Dean’s Professor of Marketing and Public Policy
It is full of practical, playful steps to systematically integrate mindfulness into your daily life, ways that Shalini herself has learned while practicing mindfulness as teacher and governmental leader.
—Mirabai Bush
Author and Co-creator of Search Inside Yourself
The key to being mindful in the real world is not more meditation but rather fostering skills to disrupt default habits that get in the way of clarity and purposeful action
Do you wish you had a roadmap to live and lead with more clarity, purpose, and impact?
You’re not alone. Our modern world is full of constant pressures that disconnect us from what matters most. In the rush of busy lives, it’s easy to get swept up in chasing temporary pleasures, making reactive choices, and feeling hopeless in the face of global challenges.
But what if there was another way?
“Return to Mindfulness” is more than just another self-help guide. This book offers a pathway to transform not only your individual life but ripple out to make a meaningful impact on our shared world.
What Makes This Approach Unique:
- Real-World Focus: We go beyond meditation cushions. Our approach is tailored for the complexities of modern life, work, and global challenges.
- Science-Backed Ancient Wisdom: Blending time-tested wisdom with modern research for proven results.
- Eight Essential Mindfulness Skills: Master awareness, compassion, curiosity, energy, appreciative joy, inner calm, focus, and equanimity.
- Systematic and Playful: A structured yet engaging approach to disrupt default habits and foster real-world mindfulness.
- Holistic System for Lasting Change:
A. Assessment: Understand your starting point
B. Book: Read and reflect on the 50+ practices and daily reminders for everyday life
C. Classes: Join the 8-Week Programs including live classes with Dr. Shalini Bahl or self-directed learning
D. Daily Habits App: On-the-go support for daily mindfulness integration
We’re talking about real change, real connection, and real impact.
The wisdom you seek lies within. “Return to Mindfulness” is your guide to accessing it.
What You’ll Gain
Real Change, Real Connection, Real Impact
Through the Return to Mindfulness Roadmap, you’ll develop:
1. Heightened Awareness: See clearly and trust your innate capacity for mindfulness, even in chaos.
2. Genuine Compassion: Shift from “me” to “we”, recognizing our interconnectedness for more meaningful relationships and leadership.
3. Empowering Curiosity: Develop a mindset of openness and inquiry, disrupting outdated defaults that block your vision.
4. Sustainable Energy: Overcome decision fatigue and lead boldly without burnout.
5. Appreciative Joy: Embrace positivity and gratitude, enhancing your resilience and overall well-being.
6. Inner Calm: Find peace amidst challenges, transforming difficult emotions into opportunities for growth.
7. Laser Focus: Master essential skills for real-world change, making impactful decisions aligned with your purpose.
8. Unwavering Equanimity: Navigate life’s ups and downs with grace, fostering adaptability in our ever-changing world.
By cultivating these eight mindfulness skills, you’ll gain the tools to:
• Lead with clarity, compassion, and courage
• Make decisions that are personally and collectively fulfilling
• Create positive change in your life, work, and the broader world
• Live your most authentic, purposeful, and impactful life
Embark on this journey to live and lead with your full potential and contribute to a better, brighter world.
Upcoming Classes Based on the Book
Deepen your mindfulness practice for real-world change in community
Return to Mindfulness: A Reader’s Roadmap to Real-World Transformation: 08/14/2024 & 08/20/2024
Return to Mindfulness: 8 Skills for Clarity, Care & Real-World Change 08-21-24 to 10-9-24
Real Conversations about Real-World Mindfulness
You can listen to the recordings of the raw, real conversations between the author and her mindful guests from different walks of life about integrating mindfulness into your work, relationships, and even politics. Click the links to watch the recordeings of the live conversations.
8:00 am Real-World Mindfulness: Innovation in Technology for Good
Join me for a coversation with Nick Kellet, founder of Deckible, world’s premier marketplace for digital card decks. Unpack how technology can be used to improve the quality of life of users and why we created the Return to Mindfulness cards on Deckible.com. Learn how to use these tools for everyday moments, from managing stress to making fulfilling choices. Click here to join the Live event.
10:00 am Mindfulness in Politics
Ask questions, challenge perspectives, and explore how mindfulness can shape a more mindful future in this invigorating conversation between Shalini Bahl, a former Town Councilor and Freke Ette, a New Town Councilor in Amherst. Click here to join the Live event.
11:00 am Compassion at Work
Join mindfulness pioneer Mirabai Bush, author (with Ram Dass), Walking Each Other Home and co-creator of Search Inside Yourself at Google, as she shares practical tips on fostering compassion and emotional intelligence in the workplace. Click here to join the Live event.
1:00 pm Behind the Scenes: The Making of Return to Mindfulness
Get the inside scoop on what inspired the book with the author—her disappointments and real-world experiences in politics that led to this guide to return to mindfulness in the real world. Click here to join the Live event.
3:00 pm Mindful Marketing: Oxymoron or Mastermind?
Professor Ron Hill, Dean’s Professor of Marketing and Public Policy at Kogod School of Business, blends his expertise in marketing and martial arts to reveal the surprising connection between mindfulness and effective marketing. Join this exciting conversation about the role of ethics and the eight mindfulness skills in marketing and research. Click here to join the Live event.
4:00 pm Mindfulness and Therapy: A Powerful Partnership
Explore the powerful intersection of mindfulness and therapy with Caroline Aller, a leading therapist and clinical director, Amherst Cognitive Therapy. Click here to join the Live event.
7:00 pm Celebrate the Value of Mindfulness in Family
Wrap up the series with a heartwarming and candid conversations about family dynamics and mindfulness with the author and her family members— George R. Milne and Ankrish Milne. Click here to join the Live event.
Praise for Return to Mindfulness
Beyond Meditation, Mindfulness in the Real World
Hi, I am Shalini Bahl. I wrote this book because after a decade of daily meditation practice, publishing award winning research, and teaching mindfulness to thousands of people, I still struggled to walk the talk.
Sure, meditation brought profound stillness. But in the real world, I found it challenging to be mindful or know what it means to be mindful—in the middle of difficult conversations, making complex decisions, starting new habits.
This struggle became more apparent when I entered the world of politics as an elected town councilor. I discovered that my meditation self could handle anything, but my politician self was easily hijacked by self-doubt and fear.
There had to be more.
So, I dove into ancient mindfulness texts, examining 2,500-year-old teachings of the Buddha —the Satipatthana Sutta—through a modern lens. Could this age-old wisdom help disrupt today’s defaults?
The answer was a resounding, “Yes!”
Now, after refining these skills through integrating them in my political work, research projects, and complex decisions, I’m excited to share what transformed my life and that of many of my clients. So it can transform yours too.
Discover the eight mindfulness skills that disrupt the eight default habits
See with Fresh Eyes
AUTOPILOT
Thinking and acting without conscious awareness and intentions
Seek to Understand and Interbe
JUDGING MIND
Tendency to act on our automatic judgments about ourselves and others
Ask What, Not Why
CONFIRMATION BIAS
Tendency to seek information that confirms what we believe
Chop Wood, Carry Water
STATUS QUO BIAS
Tendency to avoid the discomfort of any kind of change
Meet Life with Love and Gratitude
NEGATIVITY BIAS
Tendency to see more wrong than right in our lives
Empty the Cup
ATTACHMENTS
Tendency to cling to habitual hurrying, beliefs, and expectations
Choose Which Wolf to Feed
DISTRACTED MIND
Tendency to be easily distracted by what’s not important
Ride the Waves of Change with Grace
IMPULSIVE
Tendency to automatically react based on our biases
Resources to Practice Mindfulness in the Real World
Discover where you are on the mindfulness continuum
Use the Free Mindfulness Assessment to contemplate your eight mindfulness skills.
Get a copy of the book
This book is a systematic program with over 50 dedicated practices and daily reminders to strengthen your eight mindfulness skills to see clearly and act intentionally. Based on your mindfulness assessment, you can give more attention to the mindfulness skills that you’re looking to foster.
Download a free copy of the chapter on Mindful Energy: Chop Wood, Carry Water to sample the energy practices and reminders here.
Download the digital app for 48 practices and reminders
Like a mindful friend, this digital deck of mindfulness cards is designed to be there for you when you need it.
Practice and play with the mindfulness cards to:
1. Start your day intentionally
2. Find clarity about a situation or relationship
3. Make choices that are personally and collectively fulfilling
4. Invite a mindful lens to a challenging situation
5. Strengthen the eight mindfulness skills
Please email me if you would like to explore how the eight mindfulness skills can support you or your team in reaching your goals for personal fulfillment, effective leadership, and global impact.